I just read a short blog about holding yourself accountable. While it was directed to PR professionals, it is not just PR professionals that face an accountability challenge. Each and every one of us do – and even if we hold ourselves accountable in one area of our lives – we tend to not do the same in other areas. Thus, we really need to look at how we got to this point and what can we do to get us out of our current state of lack of accountability.
Blame/Excuses – How many times have you heard this statement “It was not my fault because……” When we were kids – the imps from Family Circus were to blame for everything “Not me” or “I don’t know.” We had a set of standard excuses, I couldn’t do this or that because there wasn’t enough time, the teacher did not show me how to do that, they didn’t remind me that the paper was due on Friday, etc. Today, we can add – the internet was down or there was no reception at this location.
We have become a society of “it is not my fault.” Or, I am not responsible. Hooey – someone has to take responsibility. OK, so the internet was down last night – why did you wait until the last minute to open up the computer to do the assignment or submit the application? Yes, there are some things beyond our control – the plane was diverted to Helena, Montana when you were going to Denver, Colorado. But, most of the time the root cause of our problem or failure is because of something we didn’t do or waited to late to do. We need to think about the “what if’s” and plan ahead better.
We tend to rely on someone else. It is not your boss’ responsibility to remind you of the deadline for submitting that report to the government is on Tuesday. It is not your boss’ fault that they have told you for two weeks that will be gone on a two week vacation on Monday – and you did not get the signature of approval on the report before they left. Yes, sometimes it is the boss’ fault when the report sits on their desk for a week, but did you remind them?
Your crisis may not be the most important. Don’t get angry when the boss or the instructor says too bad when the report is late. They may have other priorities. You need to plan ahead. Recall, your failure does not necessarily create a crisis on my part – I have responsibilities as well.
As individuals – self doubt, worry, and being your own worst critic – become hindrances to productivity. There is a saying that sometimes we let perfection get in the way of the good or excellent. Time is an extremely valuable resource. We don’t have infinite time to get something accomplished. Yes, we need to turn out good work. We need to edit, polish, and refine. But, we shouldn’t hold up others or the project just because you can’t decide whether or not ebony or black is the perfect word for the sentence.
As a society – we have allowed this lack of accountability. Instructors have accepted late homework. Clubs and organizations have accepted applications past the deadline. And, the government continually moves the deadlines to suit their needs. As individuals, we need to show some leadership and stop sliding down the slippery slope. Exceptions should be rare and not expected. Currently, they seem to be the norm. We need to hold the line on deadlines. Hold ourselves and our colleagues accountable. We need to have accountability partners. We need to maintain the same accountability in all areas of our lives.